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silence is not golden=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe=
 vacuum will be filled by the TV and radio =96 words that are not necessaril=
y good for your family=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EYo=
ur family needs to hear from you=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 <=
/SPAN=3EYour words will create warmth, love and acceptance=2E<SPAN style=3D'=
mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EYour words at times will need to bring cor=
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ed on the positive, you will find that words of correction will be few and f=
ar between=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe key thing =
for us as fathers is to get those positive words of encouragement out of our=
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akes perfect=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ELet your wor=
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=A0 </SPAN=3EYour family needs to hear your voice, speaking words of love be=
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'=3EWarwick Marsh=A0=A0has been married=A0to Alison for=A028 years=2E He is =
the father of five children, four boys and one girl, ranging in age from 23 =
years to=A011 years=2E=A0 Warwick is a musician, songwriter, producer and pu=
blic speaker who likes to think he can still laugh at himself=2E</SPAN=3E</P=
=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack=
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t-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-font-family: ' Times New mso-bidi-font-family=
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language: EN-US; mso-fareast-font-family: ' Times New mso-bidi-font-family: =
=3FTimes Roman=3F; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA=3F=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FON=
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Times Roman=3F; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA=3F=3E<P=3E<FONT size=3D3=3EBragging=
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hool, start bragging about how great their fathers are=2E <BR=3E</FONT=3E<FO=
NT color=3Dmediumpurple=3EThe first one says, 'Well, my father is fastest ma=
n on two feet=2E He can fire an arrow, start to run, and get there before th=
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nd be there before the bullet hits his target=2E' </FONT=3E<P=3E<FONT color=3D=
mediumpurple=3EThe third one listens to the other two and shakes his head=2E=
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ity worker, stops work at 4:30 and he's home by 3:45!'<BR=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<=
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g src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/father=
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SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<SPAN la=
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-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU sty=
le=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<B style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight: normal'=3E<SPAN la=
ng=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThe Fight for J=
ustice (Pt 1)<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-co=
m:office:office' /=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</B=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorma=
l style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10p=
t; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EBy Roland Foster<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P =
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'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<=
P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=
=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EMahatma Ghandi once said that w=
hen facing adversaries, they first ignore you, then they fight you and then =
you win=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN=
: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: V=
erdana'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MAR=
GIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY=
: Verdana'=3EThose people who despair at the apparent lack of progress in th=
e fight for social justice for separated families need to take heart from Gh=
andi=92s observation=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWe h=
ave successfully accomplished the first stage of the battle:<SPAN style=3D'm=
so-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3Ethey=92re ignoring us=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-=
spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIf you doubt this success, then read the repor=
t by the parliamentary inquiry into shared parenting and child support=2E<o:=
p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt=
'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<o:=
p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm =
0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E=
Being ignored is solid evidence that we=92re well on our way to victory=2E<o=
:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0p=
t'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<o=
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A lesson from history will provide further encouragement=2E<SPAN style=3D'ms=
o-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWilliam Wilberforce introduced his first ant=
i-slave trade bill in <=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D st1 ns =3D 'urn:schemas-m=
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ace w:st=3D'on'=3EBritain</st1:place=3E</st1:country-region=3E=92s House of =
Commons in 1788=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EHe was ig=
nored=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe bill was reject=
ed=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EMany of his fellow par=
liamentarians thought slave trading was a good idea=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spa=
cerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe way of life of these respected aristocrats, t=
he grandeur of their manor houses, the finery and opulence to which their wi=
ves and children were accustomed, depended on the commercial benefits of tra=
ding opium in <st1:country-region w:st=3D'on'=3EChina</st1:country-region=3E=
 and slaves in <st1:country-region w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EAm=
erica</st1:place=3E</st1:country-region=3E=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: ye=
s'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWilberforce=92s appeal to the dictates of conscience, the =
principles of justice and the law of God fell on the deaf ears of a ruling c=
lass which adhered more to the form than the substance of religious observan=
ce=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm=
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0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Ver=
dana'=3EThis story has a modern parallel=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P =
class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D=
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=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EOn 20 June 2002, Senator Len Ha=
rris introduced a shared parenting bill into the Australian Senate=2E<SPAN s=
tyle=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIt was called the Family Law Amend=
ment (Joint Residency) Bill 2002=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 <=
/SPAN=3ELen Harris a humble and decent ex-coalminer from <st1:State w:st=3D'=
on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EQueensland</st1:place=3E</st1:State=3E, but a=
s a One Nation senator was also unpopular in parliament and isolated=2E<SPAN=
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le=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIt threatened the income of lawyers =
whose lucrative earning in family law is built on the misery of broken famil=
ies when they are at their most vulnerable and need assistance, not plunder=2E=
<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe Liberal Party (long moc=
ked by Mark Latham as the Lawyer Party of Australia) decided that looking af=
ter their avaricious =91little mates=92 had a higher priority than dealing w=
ith the catastrophic economic and social effect of the de-fathering of socie=
ty=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe Labor Party, tremb=
ling at the thought of supporting any proposal by a One Nation senator, took=
 shelter in a redefinition of the notion of the family which devalues the ro=
le of the father and thereby, in their mind, extinguishes the problem of fat=
herlessness=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MA=
RGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMIL=
Y: Verdana'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FA=
MILY: Verdana'=3ENon-custodial parents have been ignored for long enough=2E<=
SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWe need to take the struggle=
 for justice to the next level=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMs=
oNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZ=
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MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-S=
IZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EWe need to go the way of William Wilberfo=
rce=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0c=
m 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verda=
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AN=3E<SPAN=3E<STRONG=3ECreating a Legacy of Love and Laughter (Pt 2)<BR=3E</=
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ang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EInspired by th=
e trips I took with my parents, I spoke to Peter about taking little trips w=
ith our family too=2E We wanted to experience traditional family fun=2E <=3F=
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ags' /=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EDisneyland</st1:place=3E=2E Six Flags=2E E=
ven the fifty-cent merry-go-round at K-mart=2E Living in <st1:State w:st=3D'=
on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EVirginia</st1:place=3E</st1:State=3E there ar=
e a lot of places to go on day trips=2E We went to the beach, to old plantat=
ions along the James River, and to the <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EBlue Ridge M=
ountains</st1:place=3E=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal =
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pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EOne trip to the mountains was particularly memor=
able=2E As we drove along the <st1:Street w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:address w:st=3D=
'on'=3EBlue Ridge Parkway</st1:address=3E</st1:Street=3E, we saw a cluster o=
f picnic tables under a canopy of trees, with a little sign that read someth=
ing like: 'Humpback Rock-Scenic Overlook-20 Minute Hike-This Way=2E' We stop=
ped the car thinking, oh a twenty-minute hike=2E We can do that=2E Our littl=
est boy was one and a half at the time and had to be carried=2E We began wal=
king up the slight incline, dum de dum, hmm, this isn't so bad, laughing, (s=
weat, sweat) marching, marching (feel those thigh muscles pulling), steeper =
steeper, hmmm, hasn't it been twenty minutes yet=3F<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E<=
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ir way down looked at us and said, 'You're brave=2E' We shrugged, thinking, =
gee, it's just a twenty-minute walk, isn't it=3F We took Indian names to mak=
e the climb more authentic=2E Peter was Sitting Bull and I was Princess Tige=
r Lily=2E The boys were Squanto, Geronimo and Crazy Horse, and Gracie was Po=
cahontas-of course=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal styl=
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e hike for graduates of <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:PlaceType w:st=3D'on'=3E=
Mt=2E</st1:PlaceType=3E <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3EEverest</st1:PlaceName=3E=
</st1:place=3E expeditions=2E The path steepened into vertical steps that so=
me diligent and thoughtful park work crew had pounded into the rock face for=
 the climbing-impaired=2E Our thigh muscles strained and our knees trembled=2E=
 Our tongues panted and our eyes rolled back=2E Our pulses quickened, our ch=
ests pounded=2E (Gee, are our bodies trying to tell us something=3F) Steeper=
 and steeper, along a zig-zag muddy path, we passed the baby back and forth-=
you take him-okcan you take him now=3F OK=2E, can you take him back=3F OK=2E=
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anite rock=2E Before us was a stunning view, going for miles in all directio=
ns=2E There was also a sheer drop-off which seized me in the solar plexus as=
 I imagined my children running off the edge like Wylie E=2E Coyote -- stand=
ing on the air one moment, and plunging to the rocks below, the next=2E<o:p=3E=
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r and I crawled on all fours to the center of the boulder=2E We made the chi=
ldren sit down and hang on with everything but their teeth=2E Then we looked=
 at the world God made=2E Hawks circled around us=2E A hush fell upon us as =
we took in the grandeur=2E The hush lasted a split second as the children be=
gan cawing at the hawk=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal =
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pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThe hike down was faster than the hike up=2E Our=
 kneecaps felt like they were going to pop like champagne corks=2E At the bo=
ttom we recovered with salami sandwiches and soda from our cooler, on a picn=
ic table under the trees=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorma=
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10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EI got out of the habit of reading bedtime stor=
ies during the last couple of years=2E I was really faithful about it with t=
he older two when they were little, then somehow I became lazy=2E (Shame, sh=
ame!) Reading Barbara Bush's biography recently re-inspired me about the imp=
ortance and fun of reading to children=2E Now we're doing it at least a coup=
le of times a week=2E We're learning a song before bed too=2E I taught my ch=
ildren, 'Home on the Range' recently=2E Teaching a song gives you a chance t=
o hear it as if for the first time=2E That particular one is actually very s=
entimental=2E It conjures up images of some lone cowpoke away yonder on the =
range, alone with his beans and his dawgies=2E If we sing it sincerely we al=
most cry=2E The kids throw their heads back and Peter howls like a coyote in=
 the background=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
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-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EExperiences like these make terrific memories=2E So many=
 things can help strengthen our relationship of love with our children=2E I =
don't think it matters if we go to <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EDisneyland</st1:=
place=3E or if we jump up and down on the bed with them=2E I think what trul=
y solidifies the family is when we share our real selves with each other=2E =
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LY: Verdana'=3EThe challenge parents face is that there are a multitude of m=
istakes we can make while parenting, and they are hard to foresee until you'=
re in the saddle=2E I feel like I'm winging it a lot of the time, but I beli=
eve that prayer and the determination to never stop trying are vital compone=
nts for success=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
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-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThe difficulties we all face at one time or another can =
be more easily weathered when our memories have a little tenderness or a lit=
tle comic relief=2E One way I hope to accomplish this, in the far distant fu=
ture, when my bereaved family drives my body to the cemetery after I die, wi=
ll be to leave instructions for the undertaker to play a recording of my voi=
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<STRONG=3E<FONT color=3Dfirebrick=3E'Divroce turns parents into friends'</FO=
NT=3E</STRONG=3E is the headline on a story by Laura Anderson in the Adelaid=
e Advertiser (Sat 23/10/04)</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal styl=
e=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FON=
T-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D#000000=3EIn a conference running from Su=
nday 24th to Tuesday 26th Dr Michael Carr-Gregg will tell teachers at the Ed=
ucation Research Conference that they are teaching the most 'under parented =
generation of students for two decades'=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-S=
IZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D#000000=3E'The divorce rate=
 is now 45% nationally, creating a bunch of half a milion kids moving betwee=
n parents each week=2E'</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FA=
MILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D#000000=3E'Parents have been seized by the de=
sire to be friends with their children rather than actively grabbing the rol=
e of parenting'=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARG=
IN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY:=
 Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D#000000=3E'90% of kids don't get enough sleep beca=
use they are up watching TV or playing video games=2E61% have a TV in their =
bedrooms=2E, and when you are separating yourself from your kid, it is impos=
sible to keep emotionally in touch'=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMso=
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: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D#000000=3EParents needed to ne=
giotiate rules about issues such as sex, alcohol, sleep - with their childre=
n'=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0=
pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<=
FONT color=3D#000000=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
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T-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT color=3Dmediumorchid=
=3E<STRONG=3EInitiative by Community and Church for Marriage Breakdown<=3Fxm=
l:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office' /=3E=
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=
=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT=
-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-A=
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U'=3EI have found in my life journey that some Christian denominations are v=
ery big on =91families=92 but not so good when there are breakdowns in marri=
age=2E There are times when the Church may not be all that welcoming to peop=
le who have gone through a divorce and recognising people=92s grief=2E<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-farea=
st-language: EN-AU'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal =
style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt;=
 FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3EAs a result, <=3Fxml:n=
amespace prefix =3D st1 ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags' =
/=3E<st1:City w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EWollongong</st1:place=3E=
</st1:City=3E=92s Anglican Bishop, Reg Piper has agreed to have a church ser=
vice and a forum for those who have been affected by a marriage breakdown=2E=
 The service aims to offer hope and encouragement for those who have gone th=
rough a separation or a divorce and for those struggling through a breakdown=
 in marriage=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'M=
ARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMI=
LY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU styl=
e=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3ET=
he service aims to show that the church does recognise people=92s pain throu=
gh marriage breakdowns and to reaffirm marriage=2E It will offer forgiveness=
 for past failures=2E The service will recognise that marriage does have its=
 high and lows and that no marriage is perfect=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=
=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU s=
tyle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E=
<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0=
cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;=
 mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3EThe service will be held at St=2E Michael=92=
s Anglican Cathedral in Market St (<st1:Street w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:address w:=
st=3D'on'=3EMarket Square</st1:address=3E</st1:Street=3E) <st1:City w:st=3D'=
on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EWollongong</st1:place=3E</st1:City=3E at 5 pm=
 on November the 20<SUP=3Eth</SUP=3E, 2004=2E It will be followed by a forum=
 which will be addressed by Bishop Reg Piper, Margaret Fuller from Anglicare=
, Leigh Roberts from Figtree Anglican and myself=2E The forum aims to discus=
s what the Church can do to help people who have gone through a separation o=
r divorce=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARG=
IN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY:=
 Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P=
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'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3EThis =
service and forum is not just from those who have a Christian faith=2E It is=
 aimed at the wider community, it is open to everyone who wants to gain some=
 hope for the future=2E It is also open to anyone who may have had relatives=
 or friends that have gone through marriage breakdowns and for anyone who su=
pports the sanctity of marriage=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DM=
soNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SI=
ZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o=
:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SP=
AN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-=
language: EN-AU'=3EIf you are outside of <st1:City w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:place =
w:st=3D'on'=3EWollongong</st1:place=3E</st1:City=3E, you are still more than=
 welcome to attend=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal sty=
le=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FO=
NT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3EFurther enquiries can be =
made by email: <A href=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2E=
asp=3Fs=3D2687&v=3D55&c=3D21&u=3Dhttp://au=2Ef516=2Email=2Eyahoo=2Ecom/ym/Co=
mpose=3FTo=3Dpaul=5Fdevenport2@hotmail=2Ecom' target=3D=5Fblank=3E<SPAN styl=
e=3D'COLOR: #003399'=3Epaul=5Fdevenport2@hotmail=2Ecom</SPAN=3E</A=3E <o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-farea=
st-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal =
style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt;=
 FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3ESt Michael's Church, <=
st1:City w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EWollongong</st1:place=3E</st=
1:City=3E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN=
: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: V=
erdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E(opposite <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3E<s=
t1:City w:st=3D'on'=3EWollongong</st1:City=3E</st1:place=3E Police Station)=A0=
=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0=
cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;=
 mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3ETime - 5=2E00 PM on Saturday, 20 November 20=
04<BR=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal s=
tyle=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; =
FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorma=
l style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10p=
t; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<STRONG=3E<FONT size=3D3=3E<FONT color=3Dpurple=3E=
Letters<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-S=
IZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=
=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FON=
T-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EDear Fatherhood Foundation<BR=3E<BR=3E=
Paul Devenport's recent article, <I=3EVictims of Marriage Breakdown</I=3E, h=
as prompted me to write this letter=2E=A0 Firstly, let me thank you for the =
positive and useful information you publish weekly in your excellent newslet=
ter and for your courage in providing a forum to facilitate discussion on im=
portant issues relating to fathers and their children=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EUnfortun=
ately, I meet too many good men like Paul whose children have been removed f=
rom them in similar circumstances to his=2E The hard cold reality is that th=
e mainstream Christian churches have stood by and watched these atrocities t=
ake place=2E They've done nothing practical for good men like Paul and proba=
bly for the majority of men reading this letter who want to be allowed to co=
ntinue their responsibility after separation of bringing up their children o=
n at least an equal basis with the children's mother=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EOf the 40=
 or 50 submissions I read from the mainstream Christian churches and their a=
gencies to the recent Parliamentary Inquiry into Child Custody, only one agr=
eed with the shared custody proposal and that was the <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=
=3E<st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3EWest</st1:PlaceName=3E <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D=
'on'=3EPennant</st1:PlaceName=3E <st1:PlaceType w:st=3D'on'=3EHills</st1:Pla=
ceType=3E <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3ECommunity</st1:PlaceName=3E <st1:Plac=
eType w:st=3D'on'=3EChurch</st1:PlaceType=3E</st1:place=3E=2E It is patently=
 obvious that the Christian churches, while agreeing that married fathers sh=
ould participate more in child rearing, are avowedly against good fathers, t=
he victims of marriage breakdown, being allowed to share at least half the r=
esponsibility of raising their own children=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EI say to the chur=
ch people reading this letter: the divorced fathers don't want your prayers =
and pious platitudes=2E Neither do they want counselling and support to assi=
st them accept their loss and grief=2E They want their children, and they wa=
nt your support to change the Family Law Act to ensure a rebuttable presumpt=
ion of shared custody=2E Anything less is an insult=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EI would b=
e interested to hear from the other churches, if any, who made a pro-shared =
custody submission to the Parliamentary Inquiry or who support shared custod=
y=2E Perhaps we need to compile a national register of parishes that are pro=
 and those that are anti-shared custody to assist worshippers make an inform=
ed choice of church=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EYours sincerely<BR=3EIan Windsor<BR=3EEmai=
l: <A href=3D'mailto:windsori@optusnet=2Ecom=2Eau'=3Ewindsori@optusnet=2Ecom=
=2Eau</A=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY=
: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P c=
lass=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D=
'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=
=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=
=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fa=
reast-language: EN-AU'=3E***********************<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU styl=
e=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<=
o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0c=
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Dear Fatherhood Foundation<BR=3E<BR=3EJust wondering if you could ask in you=
r next newsletter if any men who have suffered a separation, or their wife h=
as 'walked away' from the marriage, could email me with their name and email=
 address and contact details please=2E=A0 It would be valuable to have some =
dialog with these men, which would not be for general consumption, I would n=
eed to ascertain where they are at=2E=2E=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EI just finished speak=
ing Paul Devenport, which has prompted this request=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EThis would=
 be a personal request to provide places to find resources and teaching for =
men on how to rebuild marriages=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EThanks<BR=3EMichael Whennen</=
SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; ms=
o-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNor=
mal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 1=
0pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<A href=3D'mailto:michaelwhennen@hotmail=2Ecom'=
=3Emichaelwhennen@hotmail=2Ecom</A=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
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T-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E***********************</SPAN=3E<SPAN =
lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-lan=
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ILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
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e=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3ED=
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EN-AU'=3EJust a note to say how much I enjoyed this month=92s newsletter=2E =
I have since passed it on to a young single separated dad who I know will re=
ally benefit from reading it=2E It is encouraging to know there is such a vo=
ice as Fatherhood Foundation to encourage and to bring restoration back into=
 the lives of our men, they have a hard road ahead, but one which is made ea=
sier thanks to men such as yourself and others such as Bill M=2E who continu=
e to stand up for those who have no voice in our family law courts=2E<o:p=3E=
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 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3EJust a brief let=
ter of encouragement for the great ministry you do in Jesus' Name!<SPAN styl=
e=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EI wanted to thank you for your sustai=
ned service for God!=A0 <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal s=
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FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3EThanks for your great F=
atherhood newsletter / e-zine=2E Great information=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spac=
erun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWell-presented in a Biblical contemporary way=2E=A0=
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so-fareast-language: EN-AU'=3EI share it with others=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-sp=
acerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EKeep serving with passion & grace, as we turn th=
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0000=3E<BR=3EI would like to bring to your attention, the 13th Annual Pathwa=
ys Men's Festival to be held at <st1:PlaceType w:st=3D'on'=3ECamp</st1:Place=
Type=3E <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3EBornhoffen</st1:PlaceName=3E, <st1:plac=
e w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3ENuminbah</st1:PlaceName=3E <st1=
:PlaceType w:st=3D'on'=3EValley</st1:PlaceType=3E</st1:place=3E (Gold Coast =
Hinterland) on the weekend of 12-13-14 November 2004=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EI appreci=
ate that your organisation is based in New South Wales but there may be stil=
l people that you have contact with who may be interested in attending or be=
 passing through around November and may want to attend=2E <BR=3EShould anyo=
ne require transport to the site from the airport or elsewhere, arrangements=
 can be made if sufficient notice is given=2E We already have attendees comi=
ng from <st1:State w:st=3D'on'=3ETasmania</st1:State=3E, North and Central Q=
ueensland, <st1:State w:st=3D'on'=3EVictoria</st1:State=3E and <st1:State w:=
st=3D'on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3ENew South Wales</st1:place=3E</st1:Stat=
e=3E who will require transport already=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EThe Men's Health and W=
ellbeing Assn (MHWAQ) also have other activities, courses and festivals thro=
ughout the year=2E The Pathways Festival is held in November (Gold Coast Hin=
terland) and the Manshine Festival is on the May Day long weekend in the <st=
1:place w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3ESunshine</st1:PlaceName=3E=
 <st1:PlaceType w:st=3D'on'=3ECoast</st1:PlaceType=3E</st1:place=3E hinterla=
nd=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EThe website for MHWAQ is </FONT=3E<A href=3D'http://www=2Eb=
osweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2Easp=3Fs=3D2687&v=3D55&c=3D21&u=3Dhttp://=
www=2Emenshealthandwellbeing=2Eorg=2Eau/qld/'=3E<FONT color=3D#ff6600=3Ehttp=
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ONT color=3D#000000=3EThe weekend event program and registration form are vi=
ewable, downloadable and printable from this website as a PDF document=2E A =
copy of the program is also attached=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EThe workshops showing are=
 only a sample and at least another 10 are planned that have not been includ=
ed due to space on the brochure=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EThe registration costs are kep=
t as low and affordable as possible so that as many men as possible can affo=
rd to attend=2E However, whilst the site can accommodate up to about 200, we=
 want to limit registration to a maximum of about 150 so it is more manageab=
le and effective=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EWe hope that you and your organisation can pr=
omote this worthwhile men's weekend=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EDick Bennett<BR=3EPathways=
 2004 Festival Committee<BR=3EMen's Health and Wellbeing Assn Qld<BR=3ETel 3=
267 5483<BR=3EPathways mobile hotline 0405 222 775</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<B style=
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orated association with a goal to inspire men to a greater level of excellen=
ce as fathers, by encouraging and educating them, thereby renewing and empow=
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